I saw this movie . It was all that I want to say .
It happens when spouses do not cleave or be joined to their own spouses.
Always looking outside of marriage at other things , recognition in jobs , buying the next in thing , being at other people's events , gambling , pornography, other relationship ships .
Have you sat down to really connect with your own spouse ? The bible says the way that you treat yourself , you should treat your spouse too. If you treat your spouse badly , you suffer because your spouse once married to you , having the covenant of marriage , will be an extension if your self .
You are responsible for your spouse .
think about the way that you talk or handle or interact with your spouse . Do you yell at yourself All the time? Do you come into your own house , expecting your self aka the maid to pick up the clothes and wash the dirty smelly dishes ?
Or do you sleep in stinking bed sheets and wear crumpled clothes out ?
Or when you view money callously, spending any which way that you are, with no planning for the next bill payment?
Or do you just view pornography or engage sex workers without a thought of where your faith belongs ?
The all speaks of your faith, your focus, your truth , your time .
It is what you invest in. Invest in other areas you reap those bad crops or weeds. You will be empty and lonely in the end.
Invest in your wife , family, your crops are like golden harvests during harvest time. Then you will get respect from your husband or your wife.
Have you put down your self focus and self pride yet ? Have you cast away all the parasites yet ?
We call this humbling ourselves before The Lord and others.
I close this with a prayer : Thank you Lord for this message . Thank you for your son, Jesus. His salvation for all our sins clean us , that we are are reconcile with you , Abba. That we now have you to guide us in all our relationships. Teach us to love our spouses , our family. Lead us away from the temptations as we yield our failings and place at your feet. Hold us in strength in your beloved son Jesus teachings . And we will discern the right from the wrongs. In love and your forgiveness. Amen .
